I’ve always considered myself an extrovert. I love talking to people, attending networking events, and helping others move forward in their careers. A former co-worker once told me, “You know how to work the room.” That comment stayed with me.

But over the past year, it feels like I’ve disappeared.

Sometimes I choose not to attend events. Other times, it’s not a choice—arthritis in my knees makes it hard to stand for long periods.

My energy is low, my iron has dropped, and sales in my business have been slow. Financial stress and the reality of living alone have taken a toll.

I’ve been rebuilding my business, but some days I don’t know which direction to go.

I love helping people succeed in their careers, yet I’ve questioned whether my own business is “successful.” We often measure success by money in the bank, investments, and assets—not by the number of people we’ve helped land a job or a promotion.

Thirteen years ago, in November 2012, I opened my business with a clear purpose: to support the average working individual in getting that next job or promotion.

That purpose hasn’t changed. But the economy has. Job searching today is more challenging, with more lows than highs.

We all go through low periods.

Last night, I  attended a community food share to receive fresh vegetables and fruit held at an Optimist Clubhouse. I spoke briefly with the organizer and mentioned I was the first female Optimist Club president. Her response: “You’re that Mary!”

It made me feel seen.

It reminded me that the work I’ve done matters.

So here’s my suggestion:

• Make a list of all the good things you’ve done in your life.
• Review it when you’re feeling low, challenged, or uncertain.
• Let it remind you of your impact.

There are always new doors to open.

If my story resonates with you—or if you’re navigating your own career crossroads—I’d be honored to support you.

Let’s talk. You can reach me directly or at  226-378-9301.

Together, we’ll find your next step forward.